I will never be able to understand the minds of boys or men in any case. Or... maybe men-boys or... boys-men? or just people in general... and I'll never be able to understand... this game that we play with each other...If meeting new people means playing games like, hard to get or if he doesnt call then I shouldn't call then I GIVE UP! who in the world is suppose to keep track of the rules and restrictions of which we're suppose to follow as a single 25 year old female. I work just as hard as the boys, if not harder, and my job is mostly dominated by male so why is it, that when it comes to relationships, I suddenly have to "feminine" myself up and BE the "girl" that enjoys playing "hard to get"?Aren't good relationships built on trust? If so then why am I suppose to pretend that I'm not interested when really I AM! And why must we always make assumptions that my expressing my feelings will scare men away? and yes, maybe it will but, just maybe, he's waiting for me to give him the ok. who knows?So why is it that we play these games when it comes to L O V E? I'd like to know... and I'd like to know why he's waiting for me to play hard to get so that he can chase after me. god... this is exhausting. I QUIT!